Hard Times at Home this week!!!!
 

My mom died without warning on Monday, Oct. 7. Her home-health nurse was visiting and had just changed her catheter. We were all talking and laughing about Disneyland, when out-of-the-blue my mom just inhaled deep and fell back onto her bed. My dad raced to her side to help her back up, but she was non-responsive. I called 911 as my dad and the home-health nurse started to move mom to the floor to perform CPR. The paramedics arrived in under 7 minutes and after 20 minutes of working on her she never responded to treatment. She was just gone.
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R.I.P. Merrily Lane 1945-2013

On Tuesday, Oct. 8, the stress of the whole situation was just too much for my dad. He collapsed with low-level pneumonia and has been in the ICU in critical condition ever since. He's getting better a little at a time, but it's a slow recovery process. Prayers would be appreciated.

- RCT

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Sorry to hear about your loss, it's difficult.
...Neil.

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sorry to hear of your loss,
can understand how your feeling as well.
my girlfreind,s best freind passed away in a similar fashion
went out for mothers day lunch got home turned to her 2 girls told them
she loved them then fell unconcious and passed away.
our prayers and thoughts are with you in this difficult time

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All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad right now. I am just a phone call away, any time, any day, my friend.

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my thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

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sorry to hear about your Mum and your dad.

Now is the time you need to be with your dad the most.

If there any thing I can do to help just say the word and I will, even if it's money to help pay the bills.

Lots of Love From Cameron.

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Sorry for your loss. My my family will keep your family in our prayers!

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My thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

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I can surely empathize with you. Lost my mom in 2007.

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My family will say some prayers to help you get through it. Im sorry to here about your loss .

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So sorry to hear about your mom Jason. Both Susan and I have lost one of our parents in the last couple years and know how tough times like this can be. Both our hearts and prayers go out to you and your dad.

Mario

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My thoughts and prayers goes out to you my friend. I lost my father who was my best friend, all I can tell you is the pain never leaves it just hurts a little less as time goes on.

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Thank you all for the kind words. I appreciate the prayers for my family.

Thank you for the offer Cameron. It really means a lot to us. Dad has Medicare and I think it should be manageable... I hope.

A friend of my mother, that loved her as a sister, has already offered to pay for the mortuary services and is very insistent that she doesn't take "no" for an answer.

My dad was drafted into the Army, like so many in the Vietnam conflict, so my mother is going to be buried at the memorial cemetery by March AFB in Riverside County, CA.

Thank you again, RCT

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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Hopefully your dad will be able to go home soon.
I've been worried about something like this happening to my own Mom, She lives at the other end of the country, but my brother, sisters, and I are going to surprise her in a couple of weeks for her 80th. I lost my dad to cancer a several years back, and still miss him.

Pete

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my deepest condolences on your Moms passing.
I lost my Mom in 2007 and gave her CPR until the Ambulance crew arrived and after a while they said there was nothing the could do to revive her,

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Very sad to hear. your family is in my prayers. I had my grandfather pass away about this time last year, so can empathise.

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Sorry for ur loss. And I hope ur dad gets better soon. And I know how ya feel. I have lost 4 family members this year

Keith

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Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you

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sorry for your loss... losing your mom is hard and having a sick dad makes it even harder.
you and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts
may god bless all of you

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Our prayes and condolences are with you and yoru family.